Why the destiny that a lot of brilliant people take off failure hard also? James of director of center of progress of career of MBA of business school of American haing Buddha · Hua Depu and carry Mosaic · Dr. Butler, baconian piece the following psychology of these defective duty field behavior mode. Everybody has such pattern more or less in on-the-job field, be in so before marching toward a success, need more constantly him postmortem, no matter be senior officer or basic level employee.
Madcap, absolute, perfect creed
They are highbrow, when applying for a job, not be bibcock enterprise is avoided talk, otherwise with respect to housekeep. Enter big company job, they volunteer mostly, the requirement is in charge of exceeding the job of own ability. Result task was not reached, still won't quit brandish club, want to use the acceptance before taller contribution will make up for instead, the result was become often defeat a challenge.
This kind of person also likes limelight, in stable society or enterprise, they always indicate position very quickly, for fear that notices him without the person. It is to cover a heart actually frail.
Such person always asks he becomes a hero everywhere, others of strict also requirement reachs his level. On the job, they ask oneself and affiliated to a ministry " more, faster, better " . Result, affiliated to a ministry is pulled exhaustedly, in succession " jump the boat seeks to live on " , the person that stay is tiredder.
They can not understand even in the job outfit understand, if liking to say on the mouth, be: "These jobs are really boring. " but the real sense of their heart is: "I am done bad any jobs. " their hope age gently with respect to render outstanding service and be famous, but they do not like to learn again, appeal or consult opinion, because such meetings are thought they " hold the post of deeply " , so they are forced to install understand.
They or words and deeds is strong, ruthless, resemble a bulldozer, the person that every holds back outlet, uniform shovel is smooth, because of dash around madly, aggressiveness is too strong, do not know the skill of bypass, the result may harm his career career.
Escape, pessimistic, depressive
Although this kind of person is clever, practice having one by one, but once be promoted, be without self-confidence instead, feel oneself are not competent. Their core belief is " I am not quite good " , appear especially setback and when challenging, they this kind of ego destroyed the negative opinion that qualifies with ego to occupy windward.
They may become the person that typical pessimism is talked, begin suffer from imaginary fears. Before taking action, he can picture all negative results, feel angst is disturbed. This kind of person holds the position of a director, meeting when anything crops up protracted, not throw the troops into battle. Because too care about abashed feeling, afraid even affiliated to a ministry can give a state, make him embarrassed.
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